Saturday, 9 April 2016

Hermaphrodite

Sophia Young was born a hermaphrodite otherwise known as intersex.
A hermaphrodite or intersex is a person's reference to one's body but why should we be labeled as anything other than a "human being"

Being born with this condition does not create a gender or sexual orientation.

This simply means that a person is born with both male and female characteristics.

It wasn't until a later age that the medical profession came to the conclusion that Sophia was infact born a hermaphrodite.

Even in today's society, the cause is still not 100% determined.

The condition itself is split into four sections;
46, XX Intersex
46, XY Intersex
True Gonadal Intersex
Complex or Undetermined Intersex
The 46, XX Intersex is when a female is born with ovaries, the clitoris is larger than usual and is similar in looks to that of a penis, also the vaginal labia are fused together as one.
The 46, XY Intersex is when a male is born with abnormal genitals and the testes are either normal, malformed or absent.
The True Gonadal Intersex is when there is both ovarian and testicular tissue, the genitals may be ambiguous or of both sexes.
The Complex or Undetermined Intersex is a chromosomal combination where there is missing or extra X or Y chromosomes leading to issues with sexual development and sexual hormone levels.

Most of us take our bodies for granted, by what we eat or drink, we are the makers of our own wellbeing and by doing so we should treat our bodies with the love and respect we deserve.
However, some of us spend hundreds, often thousands trying to change our bodies when they were perfect as they were.
But let's give a thought to those with this condition who may have been born with more than they required and most who have struggled in life trying to figure out who they really are.

Sophia Young kindly agreed to an interview with me regarding this condition.

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Name
Sophia Young

Age
22

Sophia was born with normal female sex organs but because more ambiguous as she became older, this was noticeable at the ages of 8-9.

Sophia told me that at the time her parents were told of this diagnosis, her parents being parents were typical assholes about it especially her brother.

It breaks my heart to say but Sophia told me that due to her condition she receives negativity.

Sophia would like to have surgery to remove the male sex organs so she can carry on her life as the woman who she deserves to be.

Sadly Sophia is sterile so motherhood is out of the question.

Thankfully Sophia has good friends who she receives regular support from.

I asked Sophia, for those in her situation what advice would she give them, she replied;
"Do whatever makes you're comfortable with, fuck the haters"

Sophia started modeling in late 2014 and turned it up in 2015, she is currently managed by "Romel Management".
Sophia tells me the highs of modeling is its great fun and the lows are you have a certain number of years-old that you can keep up the modeling charade before you're redundant.
She continued by saying, its best to start young, but unfortunately she started at 21.

Friday, 8 April 2016

The Life of Mik Scarlet

Mik Scarlet has been and is many things such as a broadcaster, journalist, musician, tv presenter, columnist and disability rights campaigner.

I have to say, this interview has been one of the best I've done so far, all thanks to Mik that is!!

He did the hard work of answering my questions and what a pleasure its been reading them.

They are by far, the most interesting and informative I've read in awhile.

I'd like to take this opportunity to say a big thank you to Mik for taking time out of his busy schedule to take part in my questionnaire.

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Name - Mik Scarlet

Age - 50

When did you develop a cancerous tumour?
I was born with a Neuroblastoma, Adrenal Neuroblastoma.
It wad discovered when I was 6 weeks old.
I cried constantly for 5 weeks, but it was when I was unable to breathe that the medical people involved in my care stopped saying my Mum was panicking and took her seriously.
I was only days from death.

How was it treated?
I was put on a drug trail for a new chemo drug called Vincristin Sulphate, after the oncologist who was treating my read about a search for test subjects in the Lancet.
I was one of 6 on the trail and we all survived.
Not bad as back then Neuroblastoma was almost 100% fatal.
I also had surgery to remove the tumour, radiotherapy and was given lethal doses of vitamin B12.
Plus a lot of love and care from my parents.

How has your disability affected your life?
To be honest it’s a question I get asked a lot but I can’t really answer.
I have no idea what my life would be like if I wasn’t disabled.
Having said that, I mostly see my impairment as a positive thing.
Most of the amazing things I’ve done in my life are linked to being disabled in some way or other.
I wouldn’t have been a TV presenter which means I wouldn’t have done so many other things.
I also imagine what my life might have been like it I was not disabled and I am pretty sure it would have been crap.
I was brought up in the industrial town Luton, in Bedfordshire, and the usual life path for someone from my background was school, work at Vauxhall, marry, breed, retire and die.
Of course that was before the Vauxhall car plant shut down, so it might have been school, work, marry, breed, redundant, unemployed, retire, die.
Either way, I know that having the barriers that my impairment threw into my way made me want a better life, and gave me the resources to fight for that life.
Sure things haven’t always been easy, but I know my life is amazing because of my impairment.
I would never have met my wife for one thing, and for that alone I love being disabled.

Over your career you have been a broadcaster, journalist, musician, actor and a campaigner..
Please answer the following:

What makes a good broadcaster?
I’ve always felt that if someone presents in such a way that the viewer feels they are being talked to directly then that’s good presenting.
Whether it’s something light or a serious news story, the presenter has to engage the viewer directly.
I would like to think I do that, and the technique I use is to talk to someone I love.
When I was young I used to present as if I was talking to my Mum, but now I talk to my wife.
I really like presenters who do not sound like they are reading, which sadly seems to be very fashionable right now.
The key skill is to make it sound easy.
If you take someone like Matthew Wright. It’s only when he takes time off and someone else sits in for him do you realise just how good he is.
Natural and warm, and despite the fact he is reading autocue through out the show you can’t tell when.

What technical abilities do you have within the work of broadcasting?
I trained at the BBC in both radio and TV broadcasting.
From script writing and editing through to on air, I did a pile of courses.
If a course was on offer I tended to do it, so I have done loads of courses that weren’t really that useful to my career.
I know all about health and safety on studio sets for example.
But I suppose the best ability I have is such a long time in the industry.
It allows me to understand how it’s changed and how the techniques required develop over time.
It’s not a static industry, and this really helps me move with the times.

How do you keep up to date with news?  It’s all online.
I watch a lot of TV news too, but never read a newspaper unless I reviewing them on TV.
Always shocked at how biased print is, and it’s best to avoid it if you want real news.

When and why did you become a journalist?
Haha. I fell into being called a “journalist” along the way, and didn’t really notice it happening.
I started as a presenter, and then as I moved in to serious news became a reporter.
As I had to retire from air for a while due to ill health, I began writing for magazines and online and this caused me to move over to being a journalist.
I am now a columnist really, as alongside reporting and sourcing stories I give my own views on what is going on.
That’s the key difference, when you are a journalist you report the news, but a columnist explores the news from their view point.
Depending on the story and the outlet, I can be either.
Just the pay is better for a columnist.

What is the competition like when competing against other journalists for a story?
Hmm. Not really sure.
I tend to cover my stories from a point of view that includes me, placing myself in the action, and so it’s very hard for people to compete for the story.
You do see a story you covered being explored by other writers, and I put my spin on stories I’ve read or seen, but I’ve never fought for a story.

What type of acting have you done?  Everything from stage to screen, from comedy to Shakespeare.
With acting if I get asked I tend to do it, as I enjoy exploring a way of becoming the character.
The only thing I won’t do is any part that I feel damages society’s understanding of what it means to be disabled.
I’ve ended up in raging rows with directors, writers and casting agents over this and have lost out on work, but it means I have never played a story that did not ring true or painted disabled people in a damaging light.

Who are your favourite actors/actresses and why?
Oh wow, a toughie.
If I listed all my favourite actors here it would be a long long list.
I suppose it has to include Rutger Hauger, Harrison Ford, Angelina Jolie, Brenda Blethyn, Keeley Hawes, Karl Urban...
oh the list goes on.
I love actors who can allow you to forget they aren’t the character mostly although I’m also a fan of those celeb actors who just play themselves.
One day I’d love to be one of those, but I doubt it’ll happen now.

If you could work alongside any actor/actress who would it be and why?  Angelina Jolie, as she is such an amazing actress.
You rarely get that combination of looks and chameleon like ability to become someone else.
I’d also love to be in Vera opposite Brenda Blethyn, but as Lisa Hammond is in it already I doubt that’ll happen.
There can only ever  be one disabled person in a drama apparently.

What was your first acting performance? It was in Brookside, when I played a friend of Owen.
Never acted before and it showed.

As a musician what instruments do you play?
I’m a tech head.
I play keyboards, and piano, and program like a wizard.
It means I have to have an understanding of the theory of playing other instruments, even if I can’t play them physically.
The way a violin reacts to being plays is very different to a bass guitar, but if you program music you need to understand that to make them sound realistic.
I'm currently learning to play lead guitar.
I can also play drums but need to program the bass drum and hi hats as I can’t use the pedals.
I also sing.
Rather well even if I say so myself.

What genre of music do you perform? Electronic.
Anything from dance to synth pop to nu metal.
If there’s a synth on it, I will play it.

Who is your musical idol and why?
Gary Numan, as he was my inspiration to get into music.
As a teenager I was a musical chameleon, but once I’d heard Numan’s music I found my niche.
I then became a massive synth music fan, with Depeche Mode being another musical love.
Martin Gore from DM is a genius.
Those two shaped most of the music I have ever written and to this day, if I want to lift my spirits I play something by them.
Yes I am an old 80’s fan.

What campaigns/causes are you currently supporting?
EEEKK. It’s weird, as I now keep getting called a Disability Rights Campaigner, but in truth I haven’t ever really campaigned.
I lend my name to things and run an access consultancy, that advises business on how to be more accessible and inclusive, but I’ve never created a campaign.
But I am working with Enhance the UK as an agony uncle on their Undressing Disability campaign, giving out advice on sex, sexuality and confidence to people who contact the charity.
I work with Scope on their End The Awkward campaign too.
I think that it’s difficult for disabled people as charities can reinforce stereotypes as they need them to raise money, and so it can prove dodgy to be involved.
However if disabled people don’t get involved they run campaigns anyway and then they really get things wrong.
I have raised the lack of disabled people working on campaigns with disability charities and I think in future we will see more and inclusion which will ensure a more representative voice

What makes a good campaign?
As I already said, I haven’t ever created a campaign and have only worked with existing campaigns.
Having said all that, as a journalist I do know what kind of campaign would make me sit up and listen.
I really feel that the best campaigns feature real people telling their story in a way that people can relate to.
The campaign mustn’t disempower the people it features, no matter how much a charity might want to raise funds.
If this doesn’t happen and it features disabled people who appear tragic or weak, or it reinforces any other out-dated stereotypes, it has failed.
Disabled people need to be involved in every part of the campaigning process when fighting for disabled people’s right and equality.
Not just stuck on at the end. It’s easy to spot those campaigns and when they drop into my inbox, they get deleted straight away.

What additional information can you share with me?
I hit 50 last year, and this is amazing as I was given no more than 5 years to live at birth.
So I’ve been doing loads of things I’ve never done before, in a kind of non-bucket list.
I’m planning to write a book about this year, using each activity as a jumping off point to explore a wider issues or story from my life.
It’s why I’ve been so damn busy this year. I’ve adopted a kind of never say no approach and so far it’s been great fun. I’d advise everyone to seize the day and enjoy the moment.
It’s the one great thing that being so ill so often in my has taught me.
You never know when the end will come, so make sure you are having fun.
Live each day like it might be your last, enjoy yourself and try not to have regrets. That’s not to say do what ever you want, as regrets can also be the way you treated people.
So be nice as well as enjoying yourself. All I know is a spent most of my adult life feeling like I’d be dead soon, only to reach 50 and realise that I might have another 50 ahead of me.
Cool, Gonna make sure whatever’s ahead is as much as fun as what I’ve already lived.
Other than that, I’d say watch this space. I’m in talks at the mo about a few projects and if only half of them happen I should be damn busy as I hit 51.

Oh and visit my website for news, views and free music.www.mikscarlet.com.
If you need any access advice pop along towww.mikscarletaccess.co.uk

FLiuch Magazine


A group of Irish speaking students has worked together in order to launch Ireland's first ever online porn magazine which is written in the native language.

The magazine is suitable for both sexes, includes sex advice and illustrations of sex acts plus much more.

The students agreed to an interview with me, below are the details.

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What is the magazine name and meaning?
FLIuch, means wet

When and why was it established?
Two days ago, for the craic!

Why is the magazine in Gaelic?
That's our first language, (the team involved in putting it together)

Where do you obtain your research from? From our heads and the internet

At what cost is the magazine to purchase?
Free

How large is your reader base?
20,000

What is the primary focus of your magazine?
Porn as Gaeilge

Can the magazine be viewed online?
If so please provide the link here!
https://www.yumpu.com/xx/document/view/55379721/fliuch

Does your magazine offer competitions? No

Does your magazine offer a "problem page" ?
NO

Who is your target customer?
Irish speakers who like porn

Who are your biggest competitors? Hustler, Playboy and Foinse

Long QT Syndrome


Lisa Mitchell in the UK is diagnosed with Long QT Syndrome, she is a mother of two young girls who are also diagnosed with the same condition.

Lisa kindly agreed to an interview with me in regards to this condition so as to help raise awareness.

Long QT Syndrome is a rare heart condition.
There is a delayed repolarization of the heart with a heartbeat that increases the risk of torsades de pointes.
Torsades de pointes is a form of polymorphic VT with Long QT interval.
It consists of rapid and irregular QRS complexes which twist around the baseline of the ECG.
It may cease or degenerate into ventricular fibrillation.
Polymorphic Ventricular Tachycardia is when there are multiple ventricular foci with the result of QRS complexes.
The QRS complexes are a combination of three of the graphical deflections seen on an electrocardiogram.
It is the central and visually obvious part of the tracing.
The fibrillation is where there is an uncoordinated contraction of the cardiac muscle of the ventricles in the heart.
This makes them quiver instead of contract as they should.
It is the most common identified arrhythmia in cardiac arrest.

Via the social media website Facebook there is a UK support group for people diagnosed with the condition.
https://m.facebook.com/Long-QT-Syndrome-Support-Group-SADS-281316451925874/

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Name
Lisa Mitchell

Age
27

What is Long QT Syndrome?
http://www.nhs.uk/conditions/long-qt-syndrome/Pages/Introduction.aspx
The above link is a basic outlay of long qt

What are the symptoms?
We are asymptomatic which means we don't suffer symptoms, our first sign something is wrong is a sudden cardiac arrest.
Some people suffer fainting & can be misdiagnosed as epilepsy.

What treatment is available?
Beta blockers is the main treatment. Due to having a sudden cardiac arrest, I'm more at risk of having another one and therefore I am fitted with ICD (Implantable Cardioverter-defibrillator) this would re-start my heart it. It also acts as a pacemaker should I have any irregular heart rhythms.

How has this condition affected your children?
My children are 7 and 4. Ellie is 7 and her LQT shows in her ECG's, she also have what they think is the gene that causes LQT. She is on beta blockers daily and sees her cardiologist once a year.
Amelie is 4, her ECG's show a normal LQT however she tested positive for the gene and therefore she takes beta blockers daily as a precaution, this is following EU guidelines. She is under the same cardiologist as Ellie.
We have an external defibrillator that goes with Ellie everywhere.
They have to avoid competitive sport, interval activities/sport and anything that gets their heart rate up quickly then drop quickly. It doesn't affect their lives a great deal, however I don't leave them with just anyone and stay at birthday parties etc. Anyone that does look after them has to have CPR training and be trained in the defibrillator. The hardest thing is me holding them back on sport and activities I loved and enjoyed as a child. I swam competitively and was very good, it's hard for me to explain why they can't follow in my footsteps. I've avoided sending them to a swimming club and have taught them to swim myself.

How has this condition affected you?
It hasn't affected my life a great deal, I ensure it doesn't as there would have been no point me surviving. I suppose having the ICD gives me added protection.
Anytime the girls do something special, like perform on stage for dancing or at school, I am very emotional as it reminds me just how lucky I am to have survived and to still be here watching them grow up. I beat the odds when I had my cardiac arrest, I am fully aware there are people out there not as lucky as me. Majority don't survive or if they do they suffer brain damage. I don't take life for granted and every day I count my blessings.

Is this condition hereditary?
The condition is hereditary, it has been passed on through my fathers side.

Wednesday, 6 April 2016

My Ex-Friend Ana

Chloe Shelton is a young woman who has ended her relationship with her friend Ana and fought to move on in life with the help of her loved ones, including her boyfriend and her fur-baby PixieBelle.

Anorexia is the lack or loss of appetite and a disorder that is characterised by an obsessive desire to lose weight.

Although males can suffer from this disease, its mostly females who are affected.

Most sufferers tend to be obsessive and/or show signs of depression.

The condition can take hold at any age but most will develop it during or after puberty.

People with anorexia often use "food" as a way to control other issues, in Chloe's case this was due to bullying!

The signs of anorexia can be rapid weight loss, calorie counting, unusual eating habits, social withdrawal, feeling cold, wearing baggy clothes so as to hide the weight loss but also because other clothes don't fit and due to the fact that the person is cold; depression, anxiety, irritability, excessive exercise and much more.

If anorexia is left untreated it can cause organ damage, low blood pressure, loss of hair, thinning of the bones, death, suicide and more.

Treatment can be; hospitalisation, therapy, psychotherapy, medication or counseling.

Chloe kindly agreed to an interview in regards to her now ex-friend Ana.

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Name:
Miss Chloe Shelton

Age:
19

As a young child you were the victim of bullying, what happened?
Verbal bullying lots of taunting about my appearance and my personality.
I was also hurt physically in very malicious ways e.g pushed into a wall or stabbed with a pencil

How did the school deal with this?
My teacher actually didn't do anything her view was "catholic children don't bully" and so I left a year early to go to another non catholic high school instead of feeding into my catholic high school.

What was your first "interaction" with Ana (anorexia)?
I had an extremely bad day and for months my self esteem had plummeted . I remember I was being taunted and after they left I looked in the mirror and she was talking to me:
"you have to be either pretty or thin for them to like you, you're never going to be pretty so you'll have to be thin"
It was crazy looking back as I was extremely thin as a girl

How did Ana gain control over you?
Ana made me very paranoid of everyone "they're talking about you" "they're laughing at how fat you are" etc and I think once you're told something so many times you start to believe it.
She was in my life for a very long time and never left so she became the only friend I trusted .

How did you keep Ana a secret from your loved ones?
Anorexia is very malicious it is a game and it will keep pushing you.
I never lied as a child, I couldn't I was a terrible liar but eventually ana made me a pro at it, you do everything to keep her safe.
You hide food, spit food out etc .

What was your lowest weight when Ana had control over you?
4 stone, however it's important I believe that anorexia and other eds are taken seriously no matter what weight you are, they can kill.

When your secret with Ana was finally exposed how was it dealt with?
I was dragged to the school nurse by a friend (school friends knew) and the nurse told me she thinks I have anorexia and I would be referred to camhs.
I was then told either I would tell my mum or she would and so I wrote a letter to read to her.
It was tough at first but my family are very close so we all just clubbed together to try and make it work with appointments and things, unfortunately the illness would go on for a long time. 

How did you finally unfriend Ana and move on?
Ana and me were very stuck to one another.
My boyfriend and PixieBelle both came into my life around the same time and I just started to drift away from her although she still screamed 24/7, then I had my appendix removed and after anaesthetic ana was gone for a week!!!
Anyway during my recovery I think I had to fully accept I didn't want her before my brain could fight and so eventually she became quieter.
Ana has been gone properly now for 3 months.

Please tell me about PixieBelle and how she helped you?
PixieBelle is my world.
Mum said she'd give me £1 per lb and I could get a kitten.
I decided she would be called pixie as the word "fat" terrified me so we called it pixie dust (Peter pan was my favourite Disney film as a kid, I loved tinkerbell) anyway I looked for ages then I saw her online and I had to have her !!!!
Pixie was named PixieBelle as I loved tinkerbell and Belle from beauty and the beast.
PixieBelle helped me to care for something as well as myself, she needed me and in order for me to be there for her I had to nutrition myself.

If you could give advice to other males and females who have befriended Ana what would you say?
It's a lie.
Everything she says.
I had ana in my life for 11 years and when she left it was the best time of my life. She will make you feel small and eventually you become anorexia like you are trapped in a corner of your mind whilst ana is in charge.
Don't wait to be "thin enough" because to anorexia you will never be thin enough, she will always want more.
She won't be happy until you're 6 feet under.
You deserve help and health so fight because trust me it's easier to fight than to wait until it's your only option.

Personally I think the dangers of eating disorders should be taught in schools, if that were the case, would you ever offer to discuss Ana with others?
Totally!!!
Anorexia needs to be stopped and unfortunately that means educating the truths behind it not the media and societal representation of it.

Stevi Ritchie

Steven Andrew Ritchie otherwise known as Stevi Ritchie is an English born singer and reality TV star.
He was born in 1980.
Stevi is currently engaged to Miss Chloe Jasmine who he met via The X Factor in 2014 and he has a daughter named Summer from a previous relationship.
 

NAME:
Stevi Ritchie 

AGE:
35

WHEN DID YOU FIRST BECOME INTERESTED IN MUSIC?
Since high school in a musical called Grease

IF YOU COULD PERFORM WITH ANY CELEBRITY, DEAD OR ALIVE, WHO WOULD IT BE AND WHY?
Freddie Mercury and Elvis Presley, awesome showmen 

WHO IN YOUR LIFE HAS INFLUENCED YOU THE MOST?
My daughter has given me influence and has given me strength to carry on.

HOW WOULD YOU DEFINE "HAPPINESS"?
Happiness is love and family kids and career.

IN 2014 YOU APPEARED ON "THE X-FACTOR" AS THE OVER 25'S WILDCARD AND YOU FINISHED IN 6TH PLACE, WHAT WERE YOUR HIGHS AND LOWS?
There are no lows only highs of being on the show I loved it.

IN 2015 YOU APPEARED ON " CELEBRITY BIG BROTHER" ALONGSIDE YOUR FIANCE MISS CHLOE JASMINE, HOW WAS THE EXPERIENCE FOR YOU?
It was hard in Cbb but a great experience.

SINCE THEN YOU HAVE APPEARED ON KEEP IT IN THE FAMILY, BENCHMARK, GOOD MORNING BRITAIN, LORRAINE, THIS MORNING AND LOOSE WOMEN...
IF YOU COULD APPEAR ON ANY SHOW IN THE FUTURE WHAT SHOW WOULD IT BE?
Celebrity Juice

AS A SINGER AND TV PERSONALITY WHAT ARE YOUR GOALS FOR THE FUTURE?
To be successful and a TV presenter

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Friday, 1 April 2016

The Bald & The Beautiful

Alopecia is a form of hair loss.

There are many types such as;
Androgenetic Alopecia also known as male-pattern baldness which effects both sexes and over time the hair line recedes.
Telogen Effluvium where stress causes the hair roots to be prematurely pushed into a resting state, this can be acute or chronic.
Anagen Effluvium is the result of hair shedding during the anagen or growth stage of the hair cycle.
Alopecia Areata otherwise known as "spot of baldness" or "Davey kirts syndrome" and is an autoimmune disease where hair is lost from one, several or all parts of the body.
Traction Alopecia is a gradual hair loss caused by pulling of the hair, such as wearing tight ponytails or braids.

Other causes of alopecia can be those such as family history, hormonal changes, medical conditions and/or medications.

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This blog is based on the story of Imogen Jade, a beautiful young 18 year old from the UK.
For most women, we take our hair for granted.
We wash, cut, colour and style.
We often change our hair depending on our mood or situation.
However for Imogen Jade this is not a choice she has, for she is diagnosed with alopecia.
But Imogen Jade and her loved ones are proud of her uniqueness.

Alopecia is a form if hair loss and in Imogen Jade's case it was caused by stress due to the fact that as a young child she was the victim of bullying.

At the age of 9 Imogen Jade's hair suddenly began to grow back but sadly the bullying continued and sadly at the age of 11 her hair fell out again.

Over the years Imogen Jade experimented with wigs and hairpieces.
Her doctor made a suggestions in regards to steroid injections that encourage hair to grow, but once the injections stop the hair falls out again so for Imogen Jade this wasn't to be.

At the age of 15 Imogen Jade had the remainder of her hair shaved off and became proud of her new look.
She became a heroine too by donating her hair to a charity that makes wigs for children.

Despite cruel comments from bullies brave Imogen Jade fought back for her right to be happy.

Today Imogen Jade is now accepting modelling jobs despite her alopecia.

The "bald" truth is that Imogen Jade is a remarkable young lady with a bright future ahead of her.